Well, it was Monday, May 19, 2008.  The following Friday, May 23rd, Alex would have been in the ceremony with his fellow 8th graders to cross over to the 9th grade.  I have thought about this numerous times and would end up in such a depression, longing to see Alex, my baby boy, cross over to the 9th grade.  Then it came to me, very abruptly that morning, that there is no reason for me to be sad or depressed.  Although, Alex will never experience crossing over to the 9th grade, he has crossed over to Heaven.  What better place to cross over to.  When it is time for you to cross over, do you know where you will cross over to?